The Moment You Stop Adapting and Start Becoming
Picture the word YOU with six arrows pointing outward in every direction. Each arrow represents an aspect of your life — your job, your partner, your friendships, your family, your community, your career. In your early adult life — your twenties, sometimes well into your thirties — you spend enormous energy adapting yourself toward each of those arrows. Adjusting, accommodating, performing, fitting in. You become who each arrow seems to need you to be in order to feel safe, in control, worthy, accepted, successful — whatever the arrow seemed to require.
It works. For a while…
